About Frugal Mama

Frugal Mama is about creating high-quality family life on a low budget.

Published once a week, the blog is full of ideas that can help you save money, time and energy so you can focus on what’s important.

Frugal Mama sorts through the consumerist hype and helps you rediscover the pleasures of a simpler way of living.  It’s like Real Simple Family – on a budget.

Who Reads Frugal Mama?

Parents who want to save money, while:

  • providing their children with a good education
  • putting delicious food on the table
  • enjoying a beautiful home, and
  • having fun — with and without kids.

It’s for mothers and mothers-to-be who might be dreaming about:

  • scaling back at work or quitting their jobs
  • spending more time with their families
  • buying a house
  • building a nest egg for the future

It’s also for thoughtfully thrifty parents of all ages who would like to connect and share ideas with kindred spirits.

I love to hear from you!  Please send me your money-saving ideas to tips@frugal-mama.com.

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Meet the Author

Amy Carden SuardiHi, I’m Amy Carden Suardi and I am a writer and a mother of three children.  I started Frugal Mama because I wanted to write about where spending less intersects with living better.

After over nine years of our family living on a tight budget, I’ve come to see more and more the silver lining of making do with less.

Besides the values, skills, and perspectives that our family has indirectly gained by saving money, we have also earned freedom.  Because we live below our means, for example, I am able to take care of my kids full-time.  My husband was also able to change careers and go back to school.

In addition to saving thousands of dollars for my family, my background includes:

  • founding an organization to revitalize our neighborhood school (I received an award in 2008 from the Arlington (VA) County School Board for my successful effort)
  • directing a co-operative daycare program of six classes, 72 parent volunteers and 72 children
  • establishing two babysitting exchanges and participating in three
  • editing and designing newsletters for elementary schools
  • organizing sales and donations of used clothing and equipment in New York City
  • writing articles about schools and parenting for Motherwords, The Arlington Connection, and Washington Parent
  • starting a co-operative playgroup (where parents take turns caring for each other’s children)
  • creating a writer’s critique group whose core members all went on to become published writers

Before I had a family, I graduated with honors from Brown University, lived and worked on the east coast, west coast, southwest and midwest, and traveled all over the world (on a shoestring, of course). Since getting married in 2000, my Italian husband and I have raised kids in Milan, Italy; Cincinnati, Ohio; and Arlington, Virginia. We currently reside in the frugal mama’s nightmare: Manhattan.

You can contact me at amy@frugal-mama.com.

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Frugal Mama’s Foundations

Unconditional Love: This blog is dedicated to my beloved husband.

Proofreading: Magazines have paid staff to make sure their i’s are dotted and t’s are crossed.  I have my dad.  A retired doctor and Renaissance man, I’m grateful that his passions include English grammar — and his daughters.

Logo: My artist mother, Lynn H. Carden, designed the logo.  Besides being a wonderful mom, she is a professional painter who sells her work.  She is based in Ohio and is represented by the B. Deemer Gallery in Louisville, Kentucky.

Web Design: My sister, Jenny Carden Caro, her hubbie, and their web design team at Triple Smart helped bring the hand-drawn images and crude instructions to the modern age.  Despite their exacting, inept client, they always had a smile and a solution.  Check out some of their rocking websites and logos.

Photography:  The photos of me were taken by college friend Ben Herman.  He is a fantastic photographer and portraitist.  Check out his work and contact him at bjh1969@gmail.com.

I am also thankful to the many talented photographers at Flickr who offer their work for public use.  To find out more about a particular photographer, see the credit at bottom of the post.

Any other images were taken by yours truly with a Canon point-and-shoot.  (I know, you can tell.)

Readers: I am grateful to my readers, my friends and my family for making this herculean effort worthwhile.  Blogging is an exciting, self-directed enterprise but it also can be lonely and daunting.  Thank you for your feedback and encouragement.  I write for you!

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Nadine Shubailat November 2, 2009 at 10:07 am

I LOVE your blog! It’s beautifully written, interesting, well laid out and the tips and photos are great :)

Sarah Lloyd November 2, 2009 at 10:36 am

Hi Amy! This is amazing! Kudos to you! I need to take lessons from you not only on how to save money but also where to find time! Congratulations on this website and your blog. I can’t wait to read more. Love, Sarah

Scott November 2, 2009 at 2:47 pm

Amy-
Wow! Nicely done, and I’m going to try your pasta sauces soon. Looking forward to this summer at the farm with all the kiddies. Hope you and your family are doing well (looks like it).

“cousin” scott

Elisa Fazio November 2, 2009 at 6:34 pm

Your blog is awesome! You are so smart to write about what you know. I have always wanted to create a blog, but I don’t know what I know yet.

Now I have a couple of interesting tips to add to your blog: if you want to really know how to save money, spend time in the company of someone from another country; better yet, someone one generation up from us, from another country.

I learned from my Egyptian mother-in-law how to revive old fruit, re-use a paper towel, and remove seemingly hopeless stains from items that were destined for the trash, among many other things. We are the biggest consumerist, throw-away country in the world (or were, I don’t know what’s going on in Asia right now) so we have a lot to learn.

Another tip is to mask frugality with forward-thinking conscientiousness. Like the relative I have who didn’t want to buy wrapping paper, so she was green before green was in, and wrapped all the gifts in newspaper, and would always present it to you with a comment about saving trees.

I don’t want to buy wrapping paper either, but I’ll be straight up with you, its because I want to save money and time shopping and wrapping. So I buy those gift bags and recycle them like crazy. My family has been receiving their gifts in the same gift bags for several years now, which is fine because they know from the picture whose bag is whose, and I don’t have to write name tags.

I am on the verge of sending out christmas postcards with the the christmas cards that were sent to me cut in half, in this case not so much to save money (electronic greetings would be more economical), but because I am too sentimental to just throw the pretty cards away, so at least I will feel better giving them to someone I love. This is a great time to be practicing frugality without people calling you names for it! . . . .

Anyway, congrats and happy blogging!

Pamela Tatum November 4, 2009 at 2:15 pm

AMY!!!

So proud of you! Its just great info for mothers like me! This is great, I will be visiting your blog VERY often… send you lots of hugs and again CONGRATULATIONS!

Jeanne Stock November 5, 2009 at 2:13 pm

WOW Amy!!!!! How exciting. You know I am not the most frugal girl….bit I NEED to be!!! Especially in these economical times. Pat will love to hear that I may be becoming a Frugal Mama!!! I will pass it on!!!

Lorraine Levey November 9, 2009 at 1:10 pm

Amy,
What a fantastic job you’ve done! I’m really impressed with the articles, the layout, everything! I know it’s a lot of work, but keep it up because you’re doing great!

Fiona O'Dwyer-O'Brien November 15, 2009 at 5:35 pm

This is great Amy. I wish this was around before we left New York.
Best of luck with this. I’ll keep checking in and see what other useful tips I can pick up for my new life!

Antonella Lopopolo February 10, 2010 at 8:17 am

Hi AMY, I’m so impressed of the wonderful work you have done…..As a “new”mamma I really need any kind of advice!
With love, Anto

CC March 31, 2010 at 11:40 pm

Saw your site listed in BAM. Always loving finding frugal blogs as we live on my teacher income!! :)

Tanya Jones June 23, 2010 at 8:07 pm

Amy your blog is brilliant! I am so proud of you. Less is More! Way to go, keep up the good.

Stefania June 24, 2010 at 6:20 am

Dear Amy,
Astonishing work! You are able to make easy and pleasant the ordinary lifetime problems…great artist and great mama! I should have guessed your great talent when, just arrived in Italy, you were able to organize, in your place, amazing parties as well as thoughtful gifts for family anf friends, making all by your self!! We are missing you all, but your blog is keeping us closer..thank you!

Shannon August 5, 2010 at 11:55 am

What a fabulous and inspiring website! I know that you are taking time off to welcome your newest little one, but I do have a question that I would love for you to answer (when and if you have time!). I noticed that you had moved your family to the city and I am planning to do the same. I want my daughter to experience all that she can while we live there. Our major stumbling block to making the move from NJ to the city is schools. So, my question to you is: how did you find your place with a decent school (we are planning on moving to District 1 in the L.E.S.) and what advice do you have for making the move with a family?

Thanks!

Amy August 27, 2010 at 11:02 am

Hi Shannon,

Congratulations! What an exciting adventure. It almost makes me want to do it all over again! My best tip for people looking to move to the city and find out about schools is http://www.insideschools.org. You will find everything you need to know about NY city schools — including procedures and reviews of schools. I bought some of their books to help support the organization, which is a nonprofit.

Let me know how that goes and I’ll think about other advice about moving with a family. One thing you can start doing now is… purging! You’ll need to travel as lightly as possible!

Good luck and let me know how it’s going.

Amy

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