We had a baby on July 29 and I’ll be taking some time off to welcome him to the world. I am grateful to friends and fellow bloggers who are helping out with guest posts.  This article is by Sarah Welch and Alicia Rockmore of Buttoned Up.

Labor Day is your opportunity to give summer one last hurrah before buckling down and getting back to work, school, or normal life. If you’re one of the millions wondering what you should do for fun, we’ve got lots of ideas for making the most of your weekend without breaking the bank.

1. Hit the Parade

The first Labor Day holiday was celebrated on Tuesday, September 5, 1882, in New York City, to celebrate the social and economic achievements of the American worker. We’ve come a long way since then, but with a recession in full bloom, there’s no better time than now to rally behind American workers. Big cities and small towns alike will be hosting parades, so search the Internet to find a schedule for a parade near you, grab a friend or some family members, and celebrate the true meaning of Labor Day.

2. Throw a Horseshoe Tournament

When was the last time you played a good game of horseshoe? There’s no time like Labor Day weekend to throw down the gauntlet and challenge your friends, family, or neighbors to a little game. If you don’t have equipment, order a game set for under $20 at eSportsonline, or check your local sporting goods store. If you need a refresher course, review the rules.  Treat the winner to a two-scoop ice cream cone after the game.

3. Throw a Block Party Potluck BBQ

If you live on a residential street, and not a main thoroughfare, many towns actually encourage you to get to know your neighbors by hosting a block party. The town will shut down traffic on the street during your party, so all can congregate safely. Designate one person from the neighborhood to coordinate with the mayor’s office or the police to set the date and get the rules for the party. Once you have the date set, make sure everyone on the block knows about it and agrees to bring a dish to the party.

4. Have a Top Chef Competition

If you live in sweltering climes, or are anticipating bad weather in your area, try throwing a Top Chef competition, with one meal unveiled on each night of the long weekend. Designate three teams consisting of two or three people. Each team is assigned a night and on “their night” are responsible for preparing three dishes: an appetizer, a main dish, and a dessert. On the last night, everyone casts their vote for the best dish and the best overall meal.

5. Take in an Outdoor Concert

Labor Day and outdoor concerts go hand-in-hand. There’s nothing like closing out summer with a picnic under the stars set to a fantastic live soundtrack. Check the Internet for outdoor concerts in your area.

6. Play a Neighborhood Game of Kick the Can

When was the last time you truly let your hair down and played a good outdoor game like Kick the Can? Round up a good group of grown-ups and kids from your neighborhood and invite them to play. You’ll get a good workout and have a lot of fun to boot. If you need a refresher course, here are the rules.

7. Go to a Street Festival

Summer weekends and street festivals go hand-in-hand. In honor of the last real weekend of summer, take in a street festival near you. We took a quick look online and found options as varied as a Renaissance festival, a jazz festival, a catfish festival, and an African festival.

8. Pick Some Apples

In some areas, the end of summer coincides with apple picking season. If you live in a place like North Carolina, Virginia, New York, or Washington, set aside a few hours on Labor Day weekend to go pick some fresh apples at a nearby farm. If you’re feeling adventurous, take some and make a fresh apple pie. Try this great recipe.

9. Have a Water Balloon Toss

Every hot Labor Day party should involve a water balloon toss. It’s fun (and refreshing) for kids of all ages. Pair people up and give each pair of players one balloon filled with water. Line up players side-by-side, with their partners facing them. Move the lines away from each other. The last pair with an unbroken balloon wins.

Sarah Welch and Alicia Rockmore are co-authors of Everything (Almost) In Its Place and co-founders of Buttoned Up, Inc., a company dedicated to helping stretched and stressed women get themselves organized. We welcome your thoughts!  Please send ideas and questions to us at yourlife@getbuttonedup.com or visit us at Buttoned Up.

Photo credits: parade, guitar, balloons.

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We are expecting a baby at the end of July and I’ll be taking some time off to welcome him to the world. I am grateful to friends and fellow bloggers who are helping out with guest posts.  This article is by Dagmar Bleasdale of Dagmar’s Momsense.

Here are just a few money-saving tricks I use, and some of them not only save you green, they also let you be green.

1.  We just moved, and I didn’t pay a cent for moving boxes (and we needed a lot of them). I asked for free ones at our local Panera Bread, and they were very happy to give them to me. When we moved from Los Angeles to New York two years ago, I did the same thing at my local Starbucks.

2.  I always use those free store cards from grocery stores and pharmacy chains, and I use coupons. I try to only buy the products I have the coupons for when they are also on sale; that adds up to incredible savings. Sometimes the product is free that way. I saved close to $1,000 in two years, and that was just at the grocery store!

3.  A lot of people don’t know that Target takes coupons. I find that their food prices are lower than supermarket prices on a lot of items. I also use the coupons Target sends me.  Here is a link to the Target coupon site. Just pick the ones you need and print them out!

4.  There is no need to shell out a lot of money to entertain your child — find out about the kids’ programs at your local library and find free events in the free parenting magazines in your area.

5.  I buy cards, gift wrapping paper, toilet brushes, sponges, etc. at dollar stores. You can’t beat their prices for those items. I have scored beautiful silk pillow covers, Gund plush toys, and Filofaxes there. If you are spending more than a dollar on a great calendar these days, you are wasting your hard-earned money.

6.  Use the comic pages of your newspaper to wrap gifts! It’s colorful and I always get a great reaction when I do that.

7.  Check out Freecycle.org for free items someone else wants to get rid of.  Craigslist.org also has a free section, or you can get used things on there for very cheap. I have also sold a few items through Craislist, and I don’t have to worry about shipping them since the people who want them are local and pick them up.

8.  Buy generic brands instead of the brand items. Different package — same item inside. Before your doctor writes you a prescription, make sure he or she writes it for the generic drug. Also, ask for the stronger prescription and cut the pills in half — it’s the same strength in the end, yet insurance companies often make you pay more for the lower-dose pills.

9.  I go to VistaPrint.com for all my printing needs — I love them. Occasionally they offer free products — cards, stamps, business cards, sticky notes, calendars, etc. I have free rubber stamps from them and used to get my 10 beautiful, personalized Christmas cards there (with envelopes) for our closest family members — everyone else gets pretty cards I bought at the dollar store (10 for a dollar!). Every year, I make my parents (who live in Germany) a beautiful calendar with recent pictures of my son at Vistaprint. I get everything done in one order and save on shipping costs that way.

10.  Breastfeed! Can you imagine how much I saved in formula and food costs in three years? I am going to let my son self-wean because of the amazing health benefits of breastfeeding for him AND me, so the savings are secondary, but they are a welcome side effect!

11.  Buy affordable, multi-functional furniture pieces that can be made smaller or bigger. I love Ikea. There might be nicer furniture around, but with a 3-year-old in the house, you can’t beat the prices, plus I don’t have to stress if something gets scratched or dinged up. If you go shopping at Ikea, you HAVE to eat breakfast or lunch there:  it’s such a steal for a nice meal. Plus you can leave older kids in the playroom while you shop in peace.

12.  I love the dollar/$2.50 station at Target. I avoid the toys made in China, but I like the storage gizmo for shoes that you hang on the door. You can use those to organize all kinds of things — we have one in the hallway closet for scarves and hats and one in my son’s room for little toys. Super functional.

13.  I only buy batteries from the Target dollar station or the dollar store — you can’t beat getting four for a buck. My son’s Thomas train seems to need another battery every day — I’d be in the poorhouse by now if I bought batteries at their regular price. Better yet, invest in re-chargeable batteries.  (Make sure you collect and recycle batteries.  Find out from your town where and when you can drop them off, or bring them to Ikea — they have a recycling program for batteries and other things.)

14.  Save cardboard, address stickers, and toilet paper rolls for fun, free and green art and craft projects. I have a box full of those free address stickers. I cut off the address and let my son play with the pretty little pictures.  Here is a free e-book on recycling crafts.

15.  Before I go shopping at stores like the Children’s Place, Borders, or The Body Shop, I go online and find and print out coupons for the stores. I can always find one with at least 10 if not 20 percent off.

These 15 tips should save you some nice green!

Leave a comment and add to this list!  What do you do to save money and be green?

Dagmar Bleasdale, a writer, copyeditor, and social media consultant, blogs about natural birth, breastfeeding, attachment parenting, green and frugal living, and her addiction to Twitter at Dagmar’s momsense.

Photo credits:  grass, comics, furniture.

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We are expecting a baby on July 29 and I’ll be taking some time off to welcome him to the world. I am grateful to friends and fellow bloggers who are helping out with guest posts.  This article is by Frugal Babe.

Somewhere recently I came across a quote that went something like this:

Never sacrifice what you want most for what you want right now.

This really resonated with me, as I think it can be applied to just about anything in life:  money, exercise, diet, personal relationships, jobs, etc.

We all have things that are on our list of what we want most.  But we often let what we want now to get in the way.  My own list of what I want most looks something like this (in no particular order):

  • To always have a strong relationship with my husband and son and with our extended family and friends
  • To still be active and healthy when I’m 100
  • To own our home free and clear as soon as possible
  • To be able to weather whatever financial storms life might send our way

Since these are my priorities, I try to make them a part of my life every day.

I spend time with my husband and son, and make sure that I keep in close contact with the rest of my family and friends.  I exercise every day, and make sure that pretty much every bite of food that passes my lips is increasing my chances of reaching that 100 year mark.  We put extra money towards our mortgage every month.  We set aside a good chunk of our income each month into various savings accounts, continuing to keep our lifestyle pretty much the way it was when we were earning very little money.

By doing these things, we’re keeping our focus on what we want most, rather than on what we might want at the moment.

Over the years, I’ve found that focusing on what we want most has become a habit.  So much so that what we want right now and what we want most are almost always the same thing.

I derive much more satisfaction from sending extra money towards our mortgage than I would from spending that money on a pair of shoes, for example.  And I much prefer an apple to a piece of cake – seriously!  (That took a while — I used to have a raging sweet tooth.)

The thing I love most about the little piece of wisdom at the top of the post is how it applies to anyone, no matter how different our goals might be.  One person’s strongest wish might be to become president of her company, while another person’s greatest desire might be to climb Mount Everest.

It doesn’t matter what we want.  What matters is that we each know what we want, and focus on it, without letting day-to-day distractions and fleeting desires get in the way.

I found this quote inspiring, and I hope some of you do too.  If it inspires you to write down the things that you want most, and figure out strategies for getting them, even better!

Frugal Babe is a 31-year-old mother and wife, living in a small American town. She works part-time from home, but spends most of her time taking care of her family, gardening, finding ways to simplify and enjoy life, and stretching money as far as it will go. She loves to create nutritious meals for her family, and places a lot of importance on minimizing her environmental impact, but she tries to do both without spending a lot of money.

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Baby Arrived

August 17, 2010

We are so happy to announce that Luke Franco Suardi officially joined our family on July 29 at 1:08 a.m.  He was born just an hour after arriving at the birth center, making us thankful for simple things like full tanks of gas.

I credit such a quick and rewarding labor and birth to the emotional and physical support I received from my doulas, midwife and birth center.

Even though Luke is fulfilling his angelic newborn role, life is certainly fuller than ever and I am grateful to the friends and bloggers who are filling in for me for the next several weeks.  Taking care of my family and household is my full-time job, and that, of course, is next to impossible to delegate.

Finally, I want to extend a big thank you to my readers, who inspire and sustain me, and who make this whole writing thing worthwhile.

Sincerely,

Amy


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We are expecting a baby in late July and I’ll be taking some time off to welcome him to the world. I am grateful to friends and fellow bloggers who are helping out with guest posts.  This article is by Joanna Dreifus of MyMomShops.

I am a self-proclaimed fanatic online shopper (I buy almost everything my family needs online, from clothing to books to groceries). I’ve learned some good dollar-saving tricks for online shopping (besides the most obvious one, which is setting a budget for yourself).

Here are my top 10 tips:

Tip #1:  Skip the Mall. Buy Online.

The vast majority of my purchases are made online. Why? Because if I spot an item (particularly clothing or toys) that I like in a store, there is an excellent chance that I’ll find a better deal online. I jot down the name and style and anything else to help me remember, and then search online (often I do a Google search and then click on the “shopping” results).

I’ve saved money on everything from designer shoes (Zappos.com) to toys (Melissa & Doug toys from Gummy Lump).  Plus, you’ll be able to hone in more easily on what you really need/want to buy, instead of being tempted by everything within sight.

Tip #2: Search Online for Coupon Codes

Before I click and buy, I always stop by RetailMeNot.com and CouponChief.com to see if I can find a discount or free shipping code. If those fail, sometimes I go to Google’s blogsearch and search for “(store name) discount or coupon” because many blogs (mine included) sometimes pass along coupon codes. Click here and bookmark it so you’ll always see the coupon codes we’ve offered at MyMomShops.

Tip #3:  Ask for Discounts.

OK, so you haven’t found a discount code. Ask for one — it never hurts. Particularly at small e-boutiques or at Etsy storefronts, you never know if they might give you a discount.

Tip #4:  Shop at Amazon.com and join Amazon.com Prime.

I can’t tell you how much money I’ve saved by paying the yearly $79 Amazon Prime fee. Amazon Prime members get free two-day shipping on a huge array of items (in my experience, nearly all books, CDs, DVDs, and now many toys, too). So you don’t ever need the $25 minimum for free shipping, and you don’t need to order things weeks in advance.

Forgot that a friend’s birthday is 3 days away? No problem. Use your Amazon Prime membership to send a $20 gift (no shipping fee) that will arrive in just 48 hours. The $79 fee will quickly pay for itself.

Oh, and bookmark Amazon’s baby outlet and toy outlet.

Tip #5:  Shop at eBay for last season’s trends.

Do your kids really care that their clothing is from Fall ’09 instead of Fall ’10?  Of course not.  eBay is a fantastic place to score deals on kids’ clothing of all brands.  It works great for bigger chain brands like Gymboree or Janie & Jack. I’ve ordered some of R’s favorite clothing from past Gymboree seasons in bigger sizes thanks to eBay.  And it’s much cheaper than it was the first time around.

Tip #6:  Visit the “Deals of the Day” sites.

There’s a new crop of sites that offer one or two baby/kids items each day, heavily discounted. You have to check them regularly to see what they’re selling and then act fast, but it’s worth it. Some of the ones I frequent myself are BabySteals.com, MiniSocial.com, and MamaBargains.com.

Tip #7:  Check Facebook and Twitter for deals at sites you like.

Lots of shops have their own Facebook and Twitter pages now where they post exclusive deals, sales, and coupon codes. You wouldn’t see these otherwise, even if you subscribe to their newsletter. So check your favorite site’s hompage to see if they link to Facebook or Twitter, and then follow them. Also follow MyMomShops (me) on Twitter where I pass along scores of coupon codes and deals that I don’t otherwise have time to post in full at the blog itself.

Tip #8:  DON’T buy in bulk.

I’ve been burned by this. I find a deal on a great toy and then I buy ten of them, thinking I’ll stock up for birthday gifts. Trouble is, there always ends up being some reason why the gift is not really the right gift for the kid whose birthday is coming up.

Better to buy smaller amounts so you don’t feel pressured to make gifts “fit.” The exception would be for baby gifts. If you find an awesome, non-personalized baby gift for peanuts, scoop up lots of it…in both pink and blue.

Tip #9:  Go cheap on gift wrap and cards.

Don’t get me wrong — I’m a paperphile and love nothing more than gorgeous luxury gift-wrap and cards. But I can’t afford to use them all the time.  Instead, I stock up on discount gift wrap, tissue paper, and cards at Jack’s 99 Cent Store or at The Current Catalog.  I use gift labels (much cheaper than individual cards) or even make my own using plain white labels that the kids decorate.

Tip #10:  Read MyMomShops.

Of course, I had to add this. I’ve always been proud that MyMomShops is not a “snobby” blog. I post beautiful things, but sometimes they just happen to come from Target or Kohls. If you love shopping but are watching every dollar, I think you’ll like what I post.

Happy Shopping!

Joanna Dreifus is the author of MyMomShops, a blog that features top picks for kids’ clothing, toys, gifts, decor and more. She lives in New York City with her two children, ages 4 and 7. She is a fanatic online shopper, but also a frugalista.

Photo credits: keyboard, clothing, present.

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We are expecting a baby in late July and I’ll be taking some time off to welcome him to the world. I am grateful to friends and fellow bloggers who are helping out with guest posts.  This article is by essayist Nancy Shohet West.

Back in 2006, I wrote this article for the Boston Globe, about the tweens and young teens who were using Carlisle’s new Farmers Market to develop their entrepreneurial skills. As so often happens when I work on a feature story, I became enchanted with my subjects and developed great admiration for these young entrepreneurs.

But, with the typical nearsightedness of a parent, I couldn’t imagine my own children standing among their ranks. At ages three and seven that year, my kids’ only interest in our local Farmers Market was how many free samples of chocolate chip cookies they could cadge before I would notice, and how many dogs they could play with while I chatted with the other browsers.

It doesn’t seem as if four years have gone by, but Farmers Market starts up for the summer this weekend, and my kids are ready. Not to eat or play: to sell. They’ve been practicing their baking skills all week. Their product, they decided, would be banana bread. At the time they settled on this plan, they’d never made banana bread, but they knew it was a specialty of mine, one that they’d heard guests at our house and recipients of our gifts compliment many times. I agreed to help them get their baking abilities up and running.

They chose the business name themselves: Who’s On First. It was over a month ago that they selected the name and made a sign, using stencil letters they found at Staples. Earlier that week, Tim’s fifth grade teacher had played a You Tube clip of Abbott and Costello doing their best-known routine, and the class had been in stitches over it. I love the juxtaposition of old and new: the fact that with all the media currently available to them, nothing is funnier to the fifth graders than a 1940’s comedy routine – but also the fact that they’re all familiar with it now thanks to an innovation as state-of-the-art as YouTube.

I started teaching Tim and Holly, co-proprietors of Who’s On First, my method for making banana bread earlier this week. The first step, I reminded them, is always to wash hands. That part they had down pat. I explained the other steps and they discussed it for a while to determine how to best divide the labor. Because Holly is so much physically smaller and a bit less manually dexterous than Tim, it was fairly easy to decide who should do what. And calling Holly “less manually dexterous” is a euphemism of the first degree. Normally I just refer to her as “the Gravity Queen.” She’s never yet picked up an object she couldn’t manage to drop within moments. So I wasn’t too enthusiastic about her handling much of anything in the way of cooking ingredients, knowing whatever she touched, I would end up cleaning up off the kitchen floor.

I overcame that reservation early on, realizing that cleaning up was just going to have to be a big part of this endeavor for all three of us. And the kids settled into a routine as we practiced with one, then two, then eventually four batches of banana bread. Holly greases the pans while Tim peels the bananas. Tim melts the butter while Holly breaks the eggs into a bowl and beats them with a whisk. (To my surprise, the Gravity Queen isn’t bad with eggs. But I’m not letting her anywhere near the flour.) Tim mixes the dry ingredients while Holly beats together the bananas and sugar. When they’re done, I pour the batter into the pans for them and slide the whole set into the oven.

I’m looking forward to their first day of sales (or their IPO, as my husband calls it). They’ve worked hard together, and I’m hoping they get a gratifying response in the form of lots of customers. I’m also curious to see if they can maintain a regular baking schedule throughout the summer and not let the novelty wear off. If they can, they could each enjoy a satisfying amount of spending money over the next few months, and learn something about running a business and working together. If they can’t sustain their interest, we’ll eat the results of their initial efforts and try again another year.

But my fingers are crossed for a fine opening day on Saturday. Although I couldn’t have imagined it back when I was an objective on-the-scene reporter writing about other kids working as Farmers Market vendors, my children will now stand proudly among them. And I can’t wait to see how it goes for them.

Part II

With two weeks of Farmers’ Market under their belts, my children are off to a marvelous start, and it’s interesting to itemize the skills developed and lessons accrued so far.

The first Saturday, they baked 20 mini-loaves and priced them at three dollars each. In the four-hour stint of Farmers Market, they sold 17 loaves, which was a fine number. As I told them, it left one for us to put in the freezer for whenever we next needed a ready-made “hostess gift”; one to cut up for samples the following week (as avid Whole Foods shoppers, we are well entrenched in the culture of samples, and the kids believed this was an important attraction at their booth); and one for our family to eat in the hours following Farmers Market. (“It’s hard baking for other people and not getting to try any ourselves!” Tim had commented earlier in the day.)

The second Saturday, they baked 21 loaves and sold out within the first two hours the market was open. At ten o’clock, just as the parking lot was filling up, Tim and Holly sold their last two loaves to one chatty customer who said her children would be delighted with the treat. Farmers Market still had another two hours to go, but we were out of inventory – and the kids had collected a total of $63, mostly in ones, which they divvied up when they got home. Astounded at their commercial success, they set a goal of 25 loaves, maybe even 30, for the next week’s market. It would require them to spend a lot of time baking, they knew, but they were elated by their initial success and inspired to work harder than ever.

So far this week they’re halfway to their goal, but they’ll keep baking over the next two days. It doesn’t take them very long to make a batch from start to finish.

They still rely on me for a few tasks – they don’t like handling the well-ripened and slightly mushy bananas, so I do the peeling and drop the pieces into a mixing bowl, and I always take on the job of sliding the loaf pans in and out of the oven – but they’ve got the rest of it down to a well-managed routine, with Holly greasing the pans and whisking the eggs, Tim beating the bananas with sugar and combining the dry ingredients. They take turns when it comes to stirring the dry ingredients into the wet, and then they’re done. I help them clean up; ideally they’d do this part on their own too, but it’s a lot to expect.

Week Three is this Saturday. I’m hoping faces will become familiar and the kids will be rewarded with repeat business. I’m already happy with what they’ve learned and look forward to seeing them further develop their business acumen, baking talents and time management skills as the summer progresses. Business is brisk so far, and we’re off to an encouraging start.

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Nancy Shohet West is a freelance journalist, essayist and blogger in suburban Boston. You can see more of her work at www.NancyShohetWest.com.

Photo credits:  berries, banana bread, bananas.

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Back (pack) to School

August 2, 2010

We are expecting a baby around July 29 and I’ll be taking some time off to welcome him to the world.  This article first appeared on my family blog, Glitter & Grime, which I phased out when I launched Frugal Mama.

August is the Sunday of summer:  when the eighth month rolls around, you know the party is almost over.  At least one can look forward to buying school supplies.  Then again, these days school supplies seem to be more about cartons of Kleenex, so the pre-fall joy of shopping for a personal 64-crayon box has all but vanished.

Dante Beatrix backpacks in big kid and little kid sizes

Thank God for backpacks.  These crayola-colored  book bags by Dante Beatrix — stylized and light-hearted –help preserve the hope that children might remain innocent a little longer.

At $40 to $50, they are not inexpensive, but I believe that things that get a lot of use, like desk chairs, strollers and mattresses, warrant a heftier investment.

My daughter, Virginia, toted this lion backpack to kindergarten all year.  School bags proportioned for the preschool set are hard to find; the “little kid” size is a perfect fit for a two- to five-year-old.  When we realized she needed more space for papers in first grade, it got washed and put away, and now her little brother, Mark, uses it for preschool.

Sofia picked the shark (named “Nigel”) in the big-kid size for her second grade year at P.S. 183.  Now it is about to embark on year number two at Fayetteville Elementary here in Syracuse.

Chasing Fireflies, an extravagant children’s boutique, carries most of them, or you can see and order the whole line (which includes lunch boxes and diaper bags) directly from the Dante Beatrix website.  Not that this would have any sway, but the brand is apparently a fave among today’s child-rearing celebs (like Liv Tyler, Marcia Cross, and Jennifer Garner).

An added plus:  the unisex design means they can be re-used by younger siblings.  If only they weren’t so dang durable, we would love to buy a new one every year.

What sturdy backpacks do you love?

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We are expecting a baby around July 29 and I’ll be taking some time off to welcome him to the world. I am grateful to friends and fellow bloggers who are helping out with guest posts.  This article is by Sarah Welch and Alicia Rockmore of Buttoned Up.

It was a warm summer night. The humidity had to have been 100%, and the crickets were extra loud.  Fireflies lit up the air like Christmas lights in July, and your stomach ached from the 23 marshmallows your friends challenged you to eat in a minute.

Maybe you didn’t have exactly that experience, but chances are you enjoyed something pretty close to it — a quintessential summer evening. The best part about such a night: it involved nothing more glamorous than hanging in the backyard and cost no more than 99 cents for the marshmallows.

We may be languishing in one of the tightest economic downturns our country has seen in decades, but there’s no reason to let money woes throw a wrench in your summer fun.  You can have a fantastic summer and create lasting memories with little or no money.

All it takes is a little advanced planning.   Read on for inexpensive ways to beat the heat and have some fun this summer.

1.  Homemade Slip-n-Slide

Got a hose, a sprinkler and a tarp?  Then you can make your own Slip-‘n-Slide® for free. Just flood the tarp with water and add a sprinkler or two into the mix for extra fun.

Don’t have any of these items? Ask a neighbor, friend, or family member if you can borrow theirs for the day.  Home Depot sells tarps for fairly cheap if want to buy one.

Two tips:  (a) Be sure to get all sticks and rocks out from underneath first, and (b) If you place the tarp on a slight down slope, it works nicely too.

Fun for children of all ages.

2.  Take a Hike

When was the last time you visited your regional state park or the hiking trails in your township?  Take a nature walk by yourself or with others and recharge your batteries.

Just be sure to wear sunscreen and bug spray, bring first aid supplies, and let another person know where you’ll be and when you’ll be back.

3.  Just Beachy

Even if you’re not near the ocean or one of the Great Lakes, chances are there’s some form of a beach on a lake within 50 miles of your home. Take a day trip to the lake and just relax in the sun and shade.

4.  Rack those Little Brains

School may be out, but learning can be fun.  Try out your library’s summer reading programs for fun and free entertainment with an educational twist.  For added incentive, invite your child’s friend to go along.

5.  New Sports

Have you and your children ever tried golfing?  Go on eBay or Craislist.org to find inexpensive sets of golf clubs in adult or youth sizes, buy a bag of whiffle golf balls, and set a bucket in the yard as a target.  Then swing, aim, and enjoy.

Golf is a game of patience and practice, so even if you don’t actually go to the course very often, you can still enjoy it.  You can also teach yourself the rules while the matches are on TV on the weekends.

Hate golf?   Pick another sport you don’t usually play and give it a whirl.

6.  Help Others and Learn

Community service is a great way for kids of all ages to get out of the house and learn about others. Donate your time with the local animal shelter or join a community service club, like 4-H (www.4-h.org).

Volunteer activities remind you of what’s really important in life and enable everyone involved to make new friends.

7.  Neighborhood Camp-Out

If you have children, backyard camp-outs are always an adventure. Be sure everyone you invite to camp with you brings their own snacks to share and all you have to supply is your yard, a bathroom, and beverages.

Note for parents:  have a space available in the house if it starts raining or the children get scared.

8.  Dollar Store Art

Raid the dollar store for art supplies and go wild.  You don’t need to have $7 markers and $15 paints to have fun and stretch your creative muscles.

9.  Budget-Friendly Childcare

If you’re wondering what to do with the little ones this summer, try your local parks program for free or low-cost day camps for kids. These programs offer a fun-filled day at a reasonable price.

Sarah Welch and Alicia Rockmore are co-authors of Everything (Almost) In Its Place and co-founders of Buttoned Up, Inc., a company dedicated to helping stretched and stressed women get themselves organized. We welcome your thoughts!  Please send ideas and questions to us at yourlife@getbuttonedup.com or visit us at Buttoned Up.

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Checking In (and Out)

July 27, 2010

When I closed my personal blog Glitter & Grime (a chronicle of our adventure of moving to New York City) and launched Frugal Mama, I also drew the curtains on our personal life.  I thought it was more safe, professional, and honestly, who really cared, besides dear Mom?

Yet so much is changing for us right now, and I’m about to take a few months off to devote to our new baby.  (A fantastic group of guest bloggers will be filling in for me while I’m gone.)  Even though I strive for magazine-quality writing, I want more than a one-way relationship with my readers.  So in the desire to get in touch, and at the risk of revealing too much, here is what’s been going on behind the scenes at Frugal Mama:

As most of you probably know, we just moved from a high-rise apartment in Manhattan to a village outside Syracuse in central New York.  The day before the move, my daughters (8- and 6-years-old) flew off to Italy to visit their grandfather, by themselves for the first time.  Reunited now in a real house in a typical American suburb, we are on the cusp of welcoming our fourth child into the family.  So our world is shaking a bit right now, but we’re still standing and, mostly, smiling.

The move definitely had its rough moments, and even if things aren’t organized to my obsessive standards, the house is box-free, curtained, sheeted, repaired, cleaned, decorated, and filled with our stuff.  (Most of which would not have happened — this soon or ever — without the expertise and hard work of my parents who met us here and stayed until the job was done.)

Renting a single-family house is another first for us, having previously lived in apartments or townhouse condos.  In addition to being surrounded by nature, I love having a basement (with a washer and dryer that don’t require quarters), a screened-in porch, and a room for the baby.  On the other hand, a stand-alone house makes me feel vulnerable, and things are breaking all the time, and there are too many doors and windows to lock at night.  Instead of the roar of the city outside our window, we hear leaves fluttering and crickets whirring, punctuated by teenagers joyriding and cats fighting.

The children are in heaven:  the stairs up and down, the backyard, the birds in the tall pine trees, the Friendly’s just a scooter-ride away.  When I tucked my eldest daughter into bed the night she returned from Italy, she said, “This is the best house in the world.  I hope we stay here forever.”

After three weeks of arduous work, that was exactly what I would have longed to hear, if it weren’t for the fact that my husband’s contract lasts but a year.  We may end up staying, but the uncertainty of our future makes our presence here more complicated.

I feel an underlying hollowness about being afraid to embrace a place and its people.  A move usually promises an exciting new adventure, but the building up and breaking down is wasteful of our energy — emotional and physical — and our resources.  After moving ten times in 20 years, I’m really looking forward to sinking my roots deep.  Hopefully, next year we’ll know where that will be.

Another adjustment:  after selling our cars before moving to New York City and going auto-free for two years, we are mobile again.  (We bought used cars from eBay and Cars.com).  Cars signal ease, but to my frugal mind, in which I remember a certain minivan full of HomeGoods loot, they are dangerous.  A car does allow me to take advantage of garage sales and Craigslist, but as my friend Gayle points out, few things can counteract having a Target down the street.

So are we breathing a sigh of relief and letting our belts out a few notches now that we no longer live in the most expensive city in the U.S.?  Not exactly.  A few weeks ago the New York Times found that living in the suburbs of New York cost 18% more than living in the city.  Cars need to be bought, maintained and fed.  The extra space you get with a house doesn’t just take care of itself:  it needs to be furnished, heated, cooled, repaired — and if you buy — you’ll be taxed.  And then there’s the upkeep of a yard and, in our case, snow removal.

Adding to our expenses is the fact that our family is expanding along with our share of real estate.  For the first time since we started having children, I’m beginning to pay for occasional childcare and housecleaning, two huge outlays I haven’t allowed myself in the past.

The tiny bit of financial leeway we have been granted by living in a less expensive place with a higher salary has come just in time for welcoming another baby.  My husband insists we’ll continue to need paid help, which makes me re-evaluate my contention that children don’t cost a lot of money, a conclusion I came to partly because I’ve been doing everything myself, including childcare.  However, I didn’t take into account the loss of my income (which in the end might not have been that much, but if I were cut out to be a high-powered lawyer, it would).

How our son will enter the world has become an important issue for me.  I’m a passionate believer in natural childbirth, yet somehow my education on the topic had never progressed beyond What to Expect When You’re Expecting. To take more control over this transformative life event, I read every library book on birth I could get my hands on.  Hopefully I’ll have the pure, intervention-free experience I’m dreaming of, and with a highly-recommended midwife, doula and alternative birth center on my side, I feel my chances are pretty good.

Why do I want to experience it all, even though it can be difficult and painful?  I guess it’s like climbing a mountain or running a marathon:  it’s about the total experience and the exhilaration of reaching the peak.

Finally, part of honoring the birth experience for me is safeguarding the post-partum period as a time of recovery and celebration.  Many cultures around the world and throughout history have created a sacred space and time for mother and baby.  Here we glorify women who can get back to their normal life (and physique) the fastest.

Thanks to the help 0f friends and bloggers who will be guest-posting at Frugal Mama, I’ll be able to carve out a little quiet time.  In the next couple of months, you’ll hear some unique voices about living economically, simply, and with children.  I hope you enjoy their perspectives as much as I do.

Sincerely,
Amy

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Being frugal, to me, is not just about finding what’s cheap.  And it’s also not about sacrificing my happiness in an all-out pursuit of a fat bank account.

Of course, spending less comes out of necessity for our family  – my husband wanted to change careers and is still in medical training, and I choose to take care of my children full-time.  But I’ve been happily surprised to realize all the ways we gain, even while we cut back.  This bright side of being parsimonious is what I like to write about at Frugal Mama.

Sometimes what we gain from keeping a tight budget is a new skill, a stronger family or network of friends, a simplified life, or a sense of satisfaction.  And in more cases than not, an extra benefit of spending less is that we end up polluting less and wasting less.

So when I was asked to co-host an online talk last week on The Motherhood about Saving Money While Living Green, I knew there was a lot of material to mine.

Also organized by Discovery and led by Annabelle Gurwitch of Planet Green’s Wa$ted!, the talk was co-hosted by an impressive line-up of women who run these dynamic websites:

The text-based chat galloped along at a lively pace and, while you can read the transcript, I felt it was worth trying to condense the conversation into bite-sized pieces.

In a few words, here is the wisdom of many:

1.  School supplies: Instead of going out to buy pencils and notebooks, use up what you have. If you don’t find all you need “shopping” from home, try Freecycle.

2.  Backpacks & lunch boxes: Cheap of-the-moment backpacks usually need to be replaced every school year.  Why not buy a long-lasting quality one like those from Dante Beatrix, EcoGear, Columbia, or REI?  Same goes for lunch bags.  Try Goodbyn, Laptop Lunches or Mimi the Sardine.

3.  Meat: Eat 20% less meat (much more expensive than vegetables, grains and legumes) and reduce your impact on the environment as much as you would by switching to a hybrid car.  (Livestock production creates almost 20% of the world’s greenhouse gases.)  Even making one meal a week meat-free (Meat-Free Monday, for example) can save a family hundreds of dollars a year.

4.  Produce: Buy in-season fruits and vegetables.  (See this peak season map at Epicurious.com.)  They cost less, taste better and can reduce the environmental impact of long-distance shipping.   An added plus?  When produce is in peak season, organic sometimes costs the same as conventional.

5.  Cleansers: Clean almost everything in your house with vinegar, water and baking soda. (Fill a spray bottle with 1 part white vinegar and 1 part water and use it as you would Windex or Clorox cleaner.)

6.  Exchanging: Try swapping with friends and neighbors everything from clothes to dinners to babysitting. It’s amazing how our communities can grow and our quality of life can improve when we help each other out.   Also think of borrowing and lending large, infrequently-used items like tools, garden equipment, car luggage carriers, or inflatable mattresses.  A neighborhood listserv is a huge help in connecting people.  If yours doesn’t have one, start one at Google Groups or Yahoo Groups.

7.  Baby food: Make your own with as little equipment as a saucepan and a food processor or food mill, or simply by oven-roasting in foil.  When your baby is ready, simply grind up a portion of what you’re making for dinner.  Or prolong breastfeeding to the point where you can just cut up food into small pieces or smash with a fork. For a simple cookbook, try Cooking with Baby.

8.  Transportation: Ditch the car a few days a week and use public transportation. The average family can save almost $10,000 a year by using public transportation. Or try car sharing service ZipCar for in-town trips and GoLoco for longer trips. Carpooling is another great way to build community and save gas.

9.  Books: If you like to keep your books instead of borrowing from the library, try online book swapping services like Papberback Swap or Book Mooch.   If you can’t find a book you want, check it out from the library first to make sure you really want to buy it.

10.  Paper towels: Annabelle says, “On Wa$ted, I found a heretofore undiagnosed addiction in America: PTA, paper towel addiction. Break the habit, save hundreds of dollars a year!” Use sponges, rags or kitchen towels instead.  Try placing a basket of cloth where you would normally keep paper towels.

11.  Napkins: Cloth napkins are so much more pleasing, besides being more effective.  Use them for a few days then toss them in the laundry.  Favor darker colors so you don’t worry about spot cleaning.  Try them in your child’s lunchbox, along with real silverware and re-usable containers.

12.  Party favors: Make edibles to stuff your goody bags and you win three times:  get off the treadmill of buying single-use items, model behavior for your children, and save money all at once.

13.  Seeds: Plant a family garden for super-cheap organic food and teachable moments.  Try just one vegetable first, like tomatoes, which can be incredibly rewarding for your tastebuds and your wallet.  Or place pots of herbs on the porch in reach of the kitchen.

14.  Large appliances: When purchasing washers, dryers, refrigerators and dishwashers, choose machines with an Energy Star star rating.  Not only do they use less water and energy, they’ll pay you back big time in reduced energy costs.

15.  Beauty: Simplify your morning routine and cut back on the number of personal care products you use (like shower gel and body wash), which usually contain parabens and sulfates that wash down the drain, get into ground water, and damage fish, frogs and other aquatic wildlife.

16.  Home energy use: Save money by using programmable thermostats, keeping the shades drawn, lowering the temperature on hot water heaters, turning off the tap, and using fans instead of air conditioning.

17.  Dinnertime: Eat meals together. Not only do home-cooked meals cost less and taste better, but important bonding happens over the dinner table.  Sharing meals is even thought to be a mood-lifter.

What are some ways that you save money and feel good about it?

Congratulations to Vicki Pennock who won last week’s family pass to the Metropolitan Museum of Art.

Photo credits: flowers, transportationtomatoes.

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