Things I Want to Nail in 2012 and Tools I Need to Sharpen | Goal #1: Face the Scariness of Retirement Saving

This is so stereotypical of me to list goals for the new year.

My friend Jamie has always thought that New Year’s Eve seems like an artificial holiday. Changing numbers is kind-of a random thing to celebrate, but on the upside, the simple turning of the calendar does inspire hope and new plans.

As I’ve talked about in Tons of People Make this Mistake about Money: Don’t Be One of Them at Babble and here at This One Thing Will Make You Save Money and Achieve Your Dreams, writing down goals is an extremely powerful way to make change in your life.

While reading the amazing Wicked Success is Inside Every Woman by Vickie Milazzo, I was reminded of the Harvard Business School study where people who write down their goals were found to earn 10 times more than those who don’t. Even though all of my goals don’t have to do with making money, defining dreams and then writing them down is an almost surefire way of making them come true.

I’ve found that publicly announcing goals makes things happen even faster — whether you do it over coffee with a best friend or blast it on Facebook. By sharing my goals, I hope to open my life to you and to invite you to join me in pursuing your dreams and goals.

If you would like to do this exercise with me, I want you to know that the comments section of these posts are a safe place for you to list and announce your goals. I will respond to every comment with an encouraging message and a personalized, “Whoopee!”

So here I go with my first goal:

Goal #1 | Boring Yet Hot: Hit Retirement Hard

This goal gets the complicated prize for the most snoozy yet the most urgent. Thinking that everything is going to be all right is nice and optimistic, but good things usually only come true if you do something about them.

Life is uncertain. Even if Social Security checks exist 30 years from now, I am confident that they will not be enough to provide a comfortable life for me and my children.

I interviewed self-made millionaire and radio talk show host Dani Johnson recently about how she manages big-time success with a big family. Over and over in her book First Steps to Wealth, Dani says 98% of the population will end up dead or dead-broke by age 65. Basically, only 2% of the population will be financially successful. I want to be in that 2%, and I don’t think it happens by wishful thinking. And one of the keys, Dani says, is focus.

Our Problem

Enrico’s and my income has been so low since we got married, since most of the time I chose to not work and live frugally so I could raise my kids full-time. Enrico was also going through career re-training, so his income was not high. Even though I wouldn’t change a thing about our choices, one of the results is that we have very little in retirement. And that’s scary, especially considering we are both in our early 40s.

What We Need to Do

The past 11 years have been tight, but we managed to stay out of debt and we were able to successfully buy our first house this year. Now we must prioritize retirement as our next savings goal. Even though it’s tempting to spend more on improving the house — that’s the thorn in the side of my next goal — we must prioritize our long-term future.

We must also continue to enjoy life in a frugal way. We cannot let our hair down and go wild with the clothes, chandeliers, cars, or vacations. But that’s OK. We don’t deprive ourselves — we practice conscious spending — so we should be able to keep up our frugal ways and still feel like we are moving up.

What We’ve Done So Far

Reverse Budgeting (or Deduct the Max)

Enrico asked at his work the maximum amount we could deduct from his paycheck for retirement. We then increased our deduction from 10% (current) to 15% (the maximum allowed).

Automatic deductions from pay is an awesome way to save: you never see the money and you eliminate monthly decision-making. This idea is called reverse budgeting and it is great for people who don’t want to fiddle with allocating certain amounts to spending categories. Just sock away as much as you can, then let the rest work itself out. The Minimalist Mom Rachel Jonat, who I wrote about here, used reverse budgeting to get $82,000 out of debt.

Invest Even More

We called our bank and asked about Roth IRAs, a retirement plan where you can contribute up to $5,000 per year per person (if you make less than $179K). We decided that we could comfortably take $10,000 from our savings and still have enough for emergencies (a good rainy day fund contains 6 months of income).

Tip:  I discovered after a breathless call to our bank on December 23 that the deadline for contributing to Roth IRAs is April 15.

What We Will Do in 2012

Another truth about reaching goals: being as specific as possible makes the goal more powerful.

So we need to call our bank and talk to a financial adviser, or just use the retirement calculator at CNN Money, about how much exactly we need to save up for a comfortable retirement.

Once we know a dollar amount we are shooting for (which could change over time, but that’s OK), we can divide that figure by the number of years until target retirement to find out how much we need to contribute each year. (To take into consideration the power of the interest and dividends that will build over time, we can use a retirement calculator). Having such specific goals puts everything on the table: which will both energize us and ease nagging worry about the unknown.

For some fun charts on setting goals and measuring progress on saving money, see my Printables page.

Next Goal:  Making Our House into a Home

Next week in the Goals series, I’ll let you know my hopes and dreams for our house, and how we are having to readjust expectations.

How about you: can you tell me about one of your goals for this bright new year? Let me know in the comments, and I promise I will respond to everyone.

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24 comments

  • Emma Johnson August 1, 2012, 3:13 pm

    Well, half way through the year I have not faced the fact that I need to start saving for retirement. I will now pick up the phone- call an investment company and take action.
    Em

    • Amy August 1, 2012, 8:56 pm

      Hi Emma,

      Good for you! I know, retirement is one of those un-fun but very important projects. I know you’ll feel so much better when you’ve tackled the issue and gotten a plan underway. Getting some guidance is a great idea.

      Take care,
      Amy

  • Jennifer January 12, 2012, 1:59 am

    Amy,

    Thank you so much for your prompt reply. I really appreciate you taking the time to explain this to me. It really shows that you have a passion for the work you do here on your blog.

    We have made financial mistakes in the past and have suffered the consequences for them. Luckily we have been able to pay of all the peaty debt ( credit cards etc..), and trust me we most definitely learned from those mistakes.

    Living simple was one of my resolutions this year, and so far it seems to be making me a happier person.

    I know how easily I can get off track with things like saving, budgeting, and things like that I have noticed that one thing that can keep me on track with my goals is to be reminded of them all the time, like everyday. So, I have come to blogs like yours and listen to audio books, and anything to keep me reminded of my goals and keep me on track. I need to be feed with information that is going to help me reach my goals in other words. I have always considered myself frugal, but temptation sometimes gets the best of you.

    Your blog sucked me in . I guess because I felt that I could relate to you. Moving way too many times to count and raising a family while in school had to be the two biggest that I could relate to you with. Oh and sending my kids to a failing public school (in Chicago where we currently live)

    • Amy January 12, 2012, 9:49 am

      Hi Jennifer,

      Thanks so much for writing back! It makes it all worth it when I feel like what I’m doing is actually helping people.

      You are smart to surround yourself with people and messages that keep you on track and help you remember what your long-term goals are. As you said, it’s easy to slip into temptation in the heat of the moment.

      That’s cool that you also have moved a lot and that you are toughing it out at a disadvantaged public school. It’s nice to know that we’re not alone!

      Take care and feel free to keep writing down your goals and checking in with me here,
      Amy

  • Jennifer January 10, 2012, 11:26 pm

    Our main goal is for my husband to finish Medical School this year, but I have to ask when you say your only debt is your mortgage. With your husband being a Psychiatrist HOW in the world are you able to not have any student debt from Medical School, or to even be able to pay it off so quickly? I feel that we will be paying on that forever. I mean I would love to be able to pay that off quickly, but ummm I think we may be lucky to only pay the minimum. I have never been so scared of a payment on such a high amount.

    • Amy January 11, 2012, 9:12 am

      Hi Jennifer,

      I totally hear you — I know a lot of people in your situation, and it is scary. Our situation is a little different because Enrico got his medical degree in Italy. Even though there are clear downsides to getting your degree abroad, we are very lucky because higher education is majorly subsidized by the Italian government. Families pay a nominal amount, but it’s so little that loans are unheard of.

      Most of our friends, however, from med school here have crazy amounts of student loans, like $200,000. You are definitely not alone, and I can completely understand how that would feel overwhelming.

      My suggestion is to read Dave Ramsey’s Total Money Makeover. He teaches people, in a series of 7 baby steps, how to get out of debt and build wealth. There are really inspiring stories in there of people paying off phenomenal amounts of debt against all odds. I highly recommend it.

      The key for you guys too, will be to resist the temptations to spend as soon as your husband starts earning well. We sacrifice so much during medical training that it’s easy to want to let our hair down finally. But if you keep fighting the good fight, you’ll have peace of mind, and sooner than you think, you’ll be out of the hole and on your feet.

      One of my missions on this blog is to help people find the bright side of living on a budget. There are so many win-wins when we save money, and I’m sure you’re seeing them already, but there are a lot more to discover.

      I hope you’ll come back and share more of your journey, Jennifer! I love hearing from my readers.

      Take care,
      Amy

  • Joan January 6, 2012, 4:18 pm

    Ok, thats a good tip. I will announce my goal here. I will make a lot of money in 2012!!!
    Ok did it, thanks.

    • Amy January 10, 2012, 1:16 pm

      Hi Joan,

      Go you! Making lots of money is good, especially when we feel like we don’t have enough or hardly any at all. I encourage you to be specific about your goals. They’re much easier to attain when we have something to gun for. For example, do you want to increase your profits by 50%? Make a certain figure per year? Why do you want to make money? Can you tie your goals to some specific things you want to do with the money?

      Take care and best wishes for a prosperous 2012!

      Amy

  • Rose January 5, 2012, 9:07 am

    A plan is better than no plan at all. I really think you need to work now and save your salary for retirement fund. Listen to mom Amy, she has a good advice I’m also willing to follow.

    Rose of Branson shows

  • Jenny January 4, 2012, 9:29 pm

    My goals for this year include transforming my work life into something much more profitable, mobile and enjoyable. I also want to do more public/experimental art and have a kid. It is scarey to write things down on paper, but as you say that is the first step! I liked the CNN Retirement Calculator, much better than some other ones I saw.

    • Amy January 4, 2012, 9:36 pm

      Hi Jenny!

      So good to see you here — whipping the dustcloth off those goals and getting them naked!

      Knowing how hard-worked you are, I love the idea of you transforming your work life into something less stressful. And I know it’s possible — especially once you really decide to make a change.

      The public/experimental art sounds like a passion and that should definitely have some space too! And of course, you know how I feel about kids. Whoever that baby is, he or she is going to be one of the luckiest on earth to have you as a mom.

      Love, Amy

  • Mom January 4, 2012, 4:54 pm

    Reverse budgeting: Speaking from the other end, I can honestly say that while your father was working, we never once missed the money that was taken out of his paycheck every month and put into a retirement account. There was no dipping into it for things we wanted, nor were we tempted to borrow against it. For us it simply didn’t exist until it came time retire. But now that we depend upon it, I think of it all the time, and feel so grateful that we were given such good advice and were able to squirrel away enough to live comfortably and without worry.

    • Amy January 4, 2012, 7:13 pm

      This are comforting words, Mom. (Even though Dad just told me it was too late for us for compound interest!) Anyway, thank you for your thoughts from someone who has reaped the benefits of serious retirement deductions.

  • Jen @ Jen Spends January 4, 2012, 10:31 am

    Happy New Year! Most of my goals involve housekeeping–getting organized, and forming better habits so that I feel in control and can enjoy my home more. I’m doing that Buttoned Up Challenge that you posted about and it is proving to be very fun and helpful so far. Another goal is to pay off my car loan this year. I had hoped to get out of debt completely, but we have had one expensive problem after another recently, so I’ve decided to scale back a bit. And, finally, I want to create a fixed work schedule so that I can further develop my blog and add content on a regular basis. It started out as more of a hobby, but now I want to treat it as a job. Right now I kind of fly by the seat of my pants in all aspects of my life, so it’s tough to focus.

    • Amy January 4, 2012, 10:59 am

      Hi Jen,

      I totally know what you mean — feeling organized and in control is huge. It really changes our whole outlook, I think. Makes everything else easier and more enjoyable.

      I’m so glad you are enjoying the Buttoned Up challenge. I know you will succeed — with flying colors — will all your organizing goals.

      And paying off your car will feel great too. Once we cross things off, it frees us up to focus on other things. Success breeds success. Go Jen!

      Amy

  • Rebeccarama January 3, 2012, 11:37 pm

    Hi Amy
    I love reading your wise words :) I have 4 kids and like you have spent the last few years working as little as possible so I can be with them. This year is our year to live within budget, only use prepaid VISA card (so I can still accrue points!) and also start some serious saving- for retirement (just turned 38!), for next Christmas, for a holiday this year. Honestly, just being on top of things and meeting Christmas 2012 without money stress could be the best gift I can give to myself.
    Thanks for writing- i plan to keep reading.
    Rebecca

    • Amy January 4, 2012, 10:57 am

      Hi Rebeccarama!

      Glad to hear there are some people out there in the same boat. I love your idea of using prepaid Visa cards so you can accrue points — and obviously stay out of debt. Very smart.

      Also very smart is starting now — in January — to save up for the holidays. If we save up just a little each month, the holidays won’t be like a stomach punch.

      Try using a savings progress chart, like on my Printables page, or the Christmas budget worksheet on Simple Mom.

      Thank you for writing in!
      Amy

  • Noelle January 3, 2012, 9:37 pm

    Hi Amy I love love love your sight! I am so glad you are so transparent and willing to share your experiences and knowledge!! I feel like I am up against Goliath!! I have 5 kids, 3 in college, although one has full scholarship, there are so many expenses related to that. I still have 2 younger kids at home. I am trying to be as frugal as possible, and my hubby and I are starting Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace University in 2 weeks. We already owned the kit and had been doing some of his principles, but not nearly like we need to! I feel like I can’t even deal with retirement, just trying to make it day to day :(

    • Amy January 3, 2012, 9:48 pm

      Hi Noelle,

      I know where you are coming from! I mean, no that I have kids in college — which I think you are amazing to be handling so well — but the feeling with being up against Goliath is familiar. I’m so happy you are going to be doing Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace University. I’ve never done it, but I know you will get lots of answers and encouragement, and a way towards peace of mind.

      If you aren’t in debt at all, it might make sense to even just pull $50 per paycheck for retirement. To at least feel like you are doing something, and to take advantage of the compounding interest.

      Important thing is: just one thing at a time. It’s good that you are thinking about this now, but don’t overload yourself with thoughts that make you feel overwhelmed. Baby steps!

      Thanks for writing in, Noelle,
      Amy

  • Nichole Williamson January 3, 2012, 12:17 pm

    My goal this year is to still try to get my credit card paid off even though hubby is still out of work and to be able to pay cash for anything we need for the upcoming bundle of joy. Also to be abl to take my son to Great Wolf Lodge like he wants for his birthday and not have to put it on a credit card.. That will be our ‘vacation’ for this year, it’s just overnight but still….

    • Amy January 3, 2012, 12:23 pm

      Hey there Nichole!

      Excellent goal to get a credit card paid off. And very admirable of you to take it on, even while you are working with one income. I know you can do it! Read Dave Ramsey and you’ll see how many people were able to demolish their debt against all odds.

      And it would be awesome to go on a vacation — even if it’s not your dream vacation — without going into debt. What a great feeling. You can do it Nichole! Just keep hitting that credit card — maybe your hubbie can get a part time job for now? Anything will help!

      Sending my cheers,
      Amy

  • Josie January 3, 2012, 12:11 pm

    Get our estate planning/ life insurance/ wills finished. Ugh.

    • Amy January 3, 2012, 12:20 pm

      Hi Josie,

      Yes, that is an “ugh.” It’s a lot of money and trouble and you don’t feel like you are “getting” anything from it. But you ARE getting peace of mind. You’ll be amazed at how crossing that big thing off will make you feel. Then you can move on and tackle more fun goals, right?

      Thanks for sharing!
      Amy